The
Effect of Over
Selfie
Have you taken
picture own self using gadget? If you have, that is happened because you are
not confident with yourself and it is one of personality mental trouble. Selfie
is narcissism, using gadget in every
moment and place that they think important to memorize. However, over selfie is
habitual taking pictures of their own self in every activity, then they share
in social media. Usually they do selfie using front or behind camera. There are
some causes from doing over selfie. The first is to decrease someone inner
beauty (the beauty that comes from inside of their own self), and the second is
will make friendship trouble.
The first, we
have to know that over selfie can decrease our inner beauty, it happened
because someone who like selfie usually pays attention their style too much,
instead they do not want to look imperfect at all. In addition, they have many
ways to make their style look interesting. For example, they will waste their time in front of the
mirror and use some accessories to make their style look perfect. But do not
you ever think if they do it in many times, it will make their inner beauty
covered by their appearance. This
activity should be avoided in order protect us from BDD (body dysmorphic disorder).
BDD is kind of metal, acute disease which make the sufferer think about their
style too much. But don’t worry, this disease can be handled by psycoteraphy,
medicine, guidance and support from their family.
The second,
even though we are the creature of God, every person has differences. The
differences are not only about the characteristic, but also people’s opinion
about selfie. Not all people like doing selfie because sometimes selfie makes
someone get a negative comment from another. For example, the picture which they
shared in social media do not get many good comments. When someone gets a bad
comment from other people, maybe they will just keep silent, but some of them feel
disturbed. From this case, it will become a quarrel in social media. Some
people who have a friendship may probably become an enemy. So, selfie can
destroy a friendship.
From the
explanation above, we can conclude that we should less doing selfie and sharing
our pictures in social media. Just show the useful pictures of other people, so
people around you can take the advantage and new knowledge from the picture
which you have shared.
By: Yuni Indrawati
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